Success Through Confidence Series Part 9: Planning For An Evening Out

Apparently, the number 1 most attractive quality in a man is confidence. Not arrogance, confidence. It may take some time for this to sink in as to what hidden meaning lies beneath it. You may ask: does it mean grabbing your date over dinner and kissing her passionately? Or maybe it means being a Neanderthal, grabbing her by the hair and dragging her away? Or perhaps it to appear like David Blaine in front of her house and whisk her to some exotic location for a romantic getaway even though you don’t know her last name yet? Stop gnawing your fingernails in apprehension and confusion – I will tell you what it is – especially when you are getting ready for a date.

1. Confidence is when you are comfortable with yourself.

2. When you are comfortable with yourself, you are able to be in control.

3. When you are in control, you’ll be able to make decisions – and logical ones as well.

4. Good and confident decisions are great because you will pass this feeling of being special to your date – you will make them feel good.

If you have your eye on a beautiful woman and have already picked out the names of your prospective children with her, running away from facing her head on is not a good idea.

Don’t put too much pressure on yourself to hold a great conversation.

Speak about her – what she likes etc , and you’re off to a good start.