Success Through Confidence Series Part 6: Overcoming Shyness – The Deal Killer

It’s time to stop cowering in the corner and rise up to your full height, even if you are under five feet. The time has come to be brave and battle your shyness, killing it for good. It may take some time for you to overcome your bashful nature, but with practice you’ll notice an increase in confidence and security.

1. Every morning, as soon as you get up, say out loud your values: “I am funny” , “ I am kind”, “I have nice teeth” etc. Repeat this affirmation with enthusiasm and conviction as often as you possibly can until it's ingrained into your subconscious mind. If you feel people are watching you, begin with locking yourself in the bathroom. The results will amaze you.

2. Put some effort into looking good. If you don’t shave and choose to walk around looking like a mass murderer, don’t blame others for keeping you at two arms length. Look your best. Dress up more often. This gives you an extra feeling of confidence and self esteem. Just realizing you look good will boost your confidence and reinforce with others that there are things about you that are worth getting to know.

3. Take a risk at least once a day – get your heart rate going a little. When I say take risks, please don’t walk on the ledge of a skyscraper or anything that’s dangerous. There’s a fine line between adventure and stupidity. Conquering fears by taking risks helps you grow in confidence and self esteem. Start with small risks and fears and as you overcome them move onto bigger things. There's nothing you cannot do. Be confident in knowing that change can only help you grow, and boost your self confidence.