Success Through Confidence Series Part 25: Fitting In: What To Do During Your First Week

First day work jitters are normal as most people are nervous about whether they’ll fit into the workplace. The time it takes to fit in varies from one person to another, and job to job. Some people seem to get along well with everyone from the first day, while others take much longer. These are some suggestions to help you along:

1. Open your mouth and ask questions – not personal ones though. You're new and it's better to do something right the first time around than have to do it over.

2. Smile a lot and be friendly. Get to know your co-workers and what their interests are.

3. Use your lunch hours to get together with your current co-workers, although it may be tempting to meet up with your former ones.

4. Figure out who has the authority to give you work to do and who is just trying to have you do theirs.

5. Pay attention to what you hear about others, but don't contribute to it and never pass judgment. You don't want to gain a reputation as a gossip monger.

6. Don't complain about your boss, your office mate, any co-workers, or your previous job.

7. Continue to arrive early and don't rush out the door at the end of the day.

8. Volunteer for projects that will help you get noticed, but don't neglect any assigned work.

9. Keep a positive attitude and an open mind. Your life has changed and it will take getting used to.